Up, Up, and Away

Remember when air travel used to be pleasant? Yeah, me neither.

My sisters and I flew quite a bit when we were kids because our parents were divorced and didn’t live within driving distance of each other. We were three bored and poorly supervised girls on a plane, and no amount of free playing cards and wing pins would keep us quiet. When the magic ink pen word search and connect-the-dot books lost their thrill, we would occupy ourselves with making sculptures out of our untouched microwaved “chicken” and “potatoes” or sticking sanitary napkins in the sick bags. It would kill an hour and a half, and then we would be either with our father or back at home, none worse for the wear.

Air travel today isn’t the Norman Rockwell painting that it was for us back in the 70’s and 80’s. Now, you have to get to the airport two hours early. You have to fret over your suitcase’s weight more than your own. You have to hope the over used and under serviced self-check-in kiosks function. You have to partially disrobe based on the whims of your jaded TSA agent. Sometimes it’s your shoes, sometimes your jacket, sometimes your belt, none of it consistent. You are subjected to the caste system implications of by-zone seating, after you have already experienced watching the wealthier and more frequent travelers taking advantage of the fast-pass system of security clearance.

If you are lucky enough to board and have room to stow your carry-on in the overhead bin and not under the seat in front of you, you then sit and wait. Is today the day the plane leaves on time? Is your flight lucky enough to not have mechanical difficulties?  Is there a storm brewing in the opposite corner of the country that somehow is causing delays in your faraway and poorly connected part of the continent? Did you flight crew show up? Are they rested and sober?

If all the stars are aligned and the gods are smiling on you, you might just take off on time, which is also not really a fair description of departure and arrivals. In case you never noticed, airlines pad their flight time to avoid costly fines due to too many delays. So your flight that looks like it’s two hours really only takes an hour and a half. Sometimes you arrive twenty minutes early, or so you think. Win-win, right?

We used to pay for the convenience of air travel, and it was a comfortable and pleasant experience. Now, it isn’t any of those.

When my family and I travelled to London and Paris, we got the best and worst of both worlds. We tried to save a buck or two on flying to London and back home from Paris, which meant we had two stops in each direction. It saved us almost a thousand dollars on airfare, but you get what you pay for, amiright?

We left our home town and flew to Washington, D.C., and luckily, it was uneventful. We checked in and passed security in plenty of time to sit and wait for our zone to board last. I popped half a Xanax and don’t really remember much of that flight.  After a quick connection and another half a Xanax for me, we landed in Ottawa, Canada. We were in another country. You might say it doesn’t count, but my passport stamp disagrees with you.

Immediately, we knew we weren’t in the U. S. The border agents were polite, and the rest of the airport staff was extremely friendly. Seriously, those airport Canadians could give us Southerners a run for our money.  In fact, one lady we spoke to at the information desk asked us where we were from, and when we told her South Carolina, she told us she always wanted to visit our state.

“Really?!?” we said in unison.

“Yes,” she said. “It’s warm there.”

We charged our electronic devices and tried to find dinner somewhere other than a Tim Horton’s, which seemed to me a Canadian Arby’s and thus still not anything I wanted to eat.  After waiting for a thunderstorm to pass (who knew they had lightning in Canada?), we boarded our first international flight to London.

I expected the plane to be bigger.  I also didn’t expect the sleeping pods of first class to be so amazing, but they sure looked like they were as we walked past them to get to our economy seats. We did have video screens in the back of the head rests, and each of us had a complimentary pillow and blanket waiting in our seats, so it wasn’t too shabby. We all settled in and waited for take-off, which I am pleased to report was uneventful.

Immediately, we were served a full dinner at almost eleven at night. My fifteen year old daughter was next to me and also high on Xanax, as she seems to have inherited my fear of flying. When the flight attendant stopped at our row, he offered us food trays and then a choice of red or white wine. My daughter didn’t know what to say, and started mumbling about how she was fifteen and didn’t know what she was supposed to do and didn’t think she was old enough to drink, you know, playing it cool, but he interrupted her again. “Red. Or. White.” It wasn’t so much a question as an order.

“White,” she meekly responded.

And thus my daughter was served her first alcohol, which is a fabulous way to wash down that Xanax she took, as she sat next to the Parent of the Year, also high, with a bottle of red wine on my tray.

I don’t really remember much after that. At some point, they collected the trays and dimmed the lights. At some later point, they turned up the lights and forced a moist package of banana bread on each of us. And then, there we were, Heathrow airport in London.  The return flight from Paris? Well, that, my friends, is a story for another day.

My point is, if you have to fly, fly first class or overseas or both. If not, take a Xanax. Don’t be scared to wash it down with a little bottle of wine. If a fifteen year old can do it, so can you.